Chastity key.

Just wanted to show you the lovely gift my chastity slave gave me. He loved the idea of the key to his chastity device hanging around my neck so he bought me a necklace to hang it on. I liked the extra touch of having an 'M' on their for my name as well as Mistress.

HIgh as a kite.

I had a really great session with a regular client yesterday. He’s a young guy who’s really into being a horny slut slave. He’s a cheeky little shit who loves to provoke me, but at some point he switches into slut mode and does whatever I say. He loves having his face slapped, spat on and getting covered in my piss. It’s quite hot and horny.

Last time I saw him I introduced some discipline in the hopes that it would become a regular part of our sessions. If I’m going to see someone on a regular basis I want to be able to do things I enjoy as well as what they are into, or it’s just not fun. I’d given him a few cane strokes and hoped that he would come back and ask for more. He did.

He had a role play worked out and asked for more of the discipline as well as his usual session. I really pushed him this time. I was encouraged by how well he was taking it, deep breathing and focusing the pain. So I just pushed him until I could see he’d reached his limit. I introduced some hot wax, pouring it on his cock and balls. He really loved it and I did some more later in the session too.

By the end of the session he was high as a kite. It took him quite some time to come back to reality and I was really happy that I could take him there. Great sessions like that really encourage me to try and give that to all my clients, and they teach me a lot about taking the client on a journey.

Q & A

I've done this over at my other blog but I thought it would be interesting here too.

March question month. Do you have any questions for me relating to my job as a Pro Domme or about what goes on at my work?

Leave your questions in the comments or email them to mistress.m.2009@gmail.com if you want them to be anonymous.


I look forward to hearing them.

A new phase.

For the first time I feel like a Mistress. I need to explain that a little I know. For a long time now, and with quite a number of clients, I have felt that I am performing for them. It’s probably to do with being a submissive and always wanting to please, as well as the fact that these people are paying me. I will always have that ‘need-to-please gene’ but I’m finally figuring out my dominant side and ability to control slaves. It has come after developing a couple of regular clients, one who always lets me do whatever I want to him, and the second who I have now taken as my chastity slave.

The first slave is so very obedient and never asks for a thing, just allows me to do whatever I feel like. He just enjoys serving and has allowed me to feel at least a temporary control over him. These types are few and far between.

With the second client, who we will call Chastity slave, I have been able to take my dominance to a new level. He came in for a session yesterday and I had my usual pre-session nerves. It’s a silly thing to think but as I said I always want to please. As I sat thinking more about it I realised I had the upper hand for what felt like the first time since taking this job. This man wanted to be my chastity slave so he was the one that needed to please me. He had asked for this, he had chosen me and he needed to prove that he was worthy.

I was suddenly aroused, not by him, but by the idea of the control. I had already planned on sending him home that session with the chastity device in place having not cum. I did too. It was the first time I had ever done that, sent a client home without cumming. Oh the thrill!

It was the strangest feeling of power, and I know it will only make my other sessions better. I will be more confident and authoritative. And some clients need that from the get go. They want a slightly arrogant, you-aren’t-worthy attitude on their Mistress. I mean it’s the stereotype isn’t it, and they are all coming for the fantasy.

Below is some notes I took from the session and wrote up for the slave.

Summary of verbal contract between Mistress M and Chastity slave 7th March 2010

Chastity key belongs to Mistress M and device is to be worn at all times except when:

a) Accidently falls off (in which case it is to be immediately replaced)
b) slave has Dr. appt. or other necessity
c) When slave feels Mistress’ genitals are at health risk (where upon it can be removed for a period defined by Mistress).
d) Or otherwise instructed by Mistress.

slave will keep a Chastity Diary which will contain the following:

a) Records of when and why chastity device was removed or fell off and when it went back on.
b) Brief details of when arousal occurred, for what reason, and if anything occurred because of it.
c) Any unauthorised or authorised ejaculation.
d) Description of any tasks given to slave by Mistress.
e) Details of any cross-dressing that occurs.

A weekly summary of the Chastity diary will be emailed to Mistress every Saturday. Email frequency will be kept to a minimum.

slave has given Mistress a list of his preferred activities and desires but accepts it is Mistress’ will that determines what will take place in session. Mistress will respect slave’s hard limits and will not unjustly punish slave. slave has agreed to take discipline for Mistress’ pleasure and promises to try hard in all tasks put forth by Mistress.

slave will email Mistress when he can afford a session and will also make the phone booking through the House receptionist.

Mistress may send slave various tasks between sessions to be completed at home.

This agreement is ongoing and can be changed by Mistress at anytime or upon request by slave and agreement by Mistress.

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So I’m very excited by this new phase. It should definitely give me some more stories for the blog, which I’m determined to update more often.

Thank you out there to those still hanging around.

Chalk and Cheese.

I’ve had two sub sessions this week; they were like chalk and cheese.

The first guy was very timid and shy in the waiting room. He wanted a light session with bondage, a bit of spanking and light erotic content. We gave him the basic price, but I had a feeling it wasn’t enough. When we got in the room his demeanour changed completely. He was kind of rough with me but not in a good way; more in an inexperienced way. Everything about him was inexperienced, especially the bondage.
He just wrapped the rope around me all over the shop, no forethought, no skill. Now I can forgive that, but the worst part was he was so impatient trying to get it off. He’d get sick of one position and then be so in a hurry to get the ropes off he’d just pull and tug and make the whole mess worse.

I was right when it came to the price being too low; he certainly tried to get his money’s worth. He was constantly in a rush, trying to cram everything in one session. He was rough without having asked for that (not light) and then tried to do things we hadn’t agreed on like pegs on the pussy and breast bondage (not light). It just made the session really stressful and annoying.

The worst part was I felt like I wasn’t even in the room. He pawed me like a doll, and not in a good way. It was like I was a piece of clay that he was pushing and pulling. He didn’t care about my pleasure or enjoyment. Now that can be fine if that’s the role play, but this was no role play it was just shit. He was like a teenage boy that never gets a chance to touch a girl and then is so over-enthusiastic it’s painful.


The second guy on the other hand was what I would call a real Master. It was one of the best sessions I’ve ever had at work. I felt dominated, under his control. He was very skilled at bondage and did some great rope work as well as restraint positions. There was hair pulling and light breath play. He used me as his property but in a respectful way. He complemented me when I did things well and chastised me when I did things wrong. It was a head fuck and a body fuck; I was so high afterwards. It was just so great to have a session that suited me so well.

It’s funny how different they were. I have such an interesting job.

12 of the Best!

It’s been a while since I last posted. I’m not sure if anyone is still reading, I guess I don’t expect people to stick around when there is nothing new to read.


I just finished a session and am a bit light-headed but I wanted to write while it was all still fresh in my mind. I’ve been seeing this client for a while now, and each session builds on the last. The client is by far one of my favourites; we seem to be “on the same wavelength” as he puts it. Sometimes I am Mistress and sometimes we switch. He takes 12 strokes of the strap; he’d prefer the cane but cannot have marks. He has a long history of taking the cane since he was a school boy in England. He’s told me many stories which I may pass on another time, but for now back to today’s session.

I was the school Mistress, he the school boy. I enter the room and sit down with the boy to discuss why he has come to see me. The boy explains that he has come to ask for my help. He thanks me for last times punishment and tells me how much it has helped him keep a clear mind and concentrate on his studies. He then informs me he has been experiencing wayward thoughts again and wants to know if I can again administer the strap to help him back on the right path.

Of course I oblige. I make the school boy undress and straddle the punishment bench. I strap him down and run a soothing hand over his naked back. I place the strap in front of his face and explain that I will leave the room for a time to allow him to prepare his mind for the punishment.

After a minute or so I return to the room in silence. I pick up the strap and ask him if he was ready. “Yes Miss.”

“I will now give you 12 strokes of the strap. Do you accept your punishment?” “Yes Miss.”

“You will count after each stroke and thank me. Understand?” “Yes Miss.”

I administer the first 6 strokes. I then remove my dress and prepare for the next 6. Once they were dealt out the school boy is removed from the punishment bench and told to lay on the bed where I rub talc into his red stripey bottom.

The school boy thanks me and I can see he is in a very lovely space. He kneels before me and begins to ask me if I ever feel the need for such catharsis. With slight nervousness I confess my own desire to be absolved of my impure thoughts. I explain that as one in power I often crave to feel the release I have given to so many of my students, and I long to find someone who can help me with this burden. The school boy offers to be that person.

The thought then strikes me that this is a good opportunity not only to feel the release I so desire, but also to train him to become a senior discipline student. I explain to him how I like to have a senior boy who can discipline some of the younger boys when they need a firmer hand than my own.

He reverently accepts my offer and we begin my punishment. He follows all I have taught him and after strapping me down he speaks the words I have spoken to him. He then asks me what impurities or wayward actions I feel I need to cleanse. With a heavy heart I confess that I have, on many occasions, snuck into the boys change rooms and watched them undress and shower.

And with that I was given 12 of the best.

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